ex_flameandsong751: An androgynous-looking guy: short grey hair under rainbow cat ears hat, wearing silver Magen David and black t-shirt, making a peace sign, background rainbow bokeh. (LGBT: Gender-Os)

[personal profile] ex_flameandsong751 2023-10-05 06:34 am (UTC)(link)
This is great, holy shit, thank you for linking it.

I have a lot of complicated thoughts about being a trans man and how I didn't internalize a lot of toxic masculinity re: Accepted Male Behavior/Attitudes because I never had a chance to - I'm not even talking about being socialized female [because from a young age, some accepted-female-socialization behaviors were things I didn't perform/didn't make sense] but because I'm hypermobile and my body has been an epic bag of dicks since I was a kid I never got to, like, be active and Do "Guy Shit" and formulate my concept of self as action hero. As a kid I was the geek who read books and didn't play sportsball, as an adult I'm the hobbit who wants to eat elevensies and live my quiet-ass life and Not go on adventures. [I had some "adventures" not by choice in my 20s/early 30s, 0/10 recommend.]

But this three-part article actually explains a lot about, for example, MAGA radicalization and why a lot of guys from my generation went that way, because Fighting Darth Brandon or whatever is their big epic good v. evil battle.

Again, thank you and I'm looking forward to your thoughts.
Edited 2023-10-05 06:38 (UTC)
ex_flameandsong751: An androgynous-looking guy: short grey hair under rainbow cat ears hat, wearing silver Magen David and black t-shirt, making a peace sign, background rainbow bokeh. (LGBT: homophobic cishet guys be like)

[personal profile] ex_flameandsong751 2023-10-05 12:24 pm (UTC)(link)
YES. OMFG
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[personal profile] solarbird 2023-10-06 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that part's absolutely at least somewhat true.
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[personal profile] sabotabby 2023-10-05 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
This is fascinating. Thank you!
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oh this part pisses me off

[personal profile] solarbird 2023-10-06 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
But 9/11 was different... it violated the most important aspect of postmodern narcissism: story... even the characters were a surprise.

We didn't know they even existed. Tali what? Did anyone know the backstory?

FUCKING YES WE DID AND SOME OF US SPENT MONTHS IN 1999 TRYING TO GET LITERALLY ANYONE TO PAY ATTENTION TO THAT LITTLE EXPERIMENT THE PAKISTANI INTELLIGENCE SERVICES WERE RUNNING IN THE NORTH CALLED 'THE TALIBAN' AND FUCKING TOLD EVERYONE WE COULD WHAT...

[grips fists]

Yeah.

Still real mad about that.