I hear you. I've been occasionally backing off of Tumblr only to go back because for a long time, *this place* didn't have many of the people I actually went to Tumblr to follow (I followed on yours and Tanathir's heels in 2010!). I learned lots there about social justice...and about Social Justicing (TM). Also watched friends having to basically start their Tumblrs over again when posts went viral because even a harmless post going viral can and does bring on the abusive nonsense.